GIRLLS!! Do I need to change my personality? Friends sister's opinion need help!!!?

Girls don't want a guy that is THAT into himself. They want someone thats going to be into them. It sounds like you are so full of yourself that you aren't connecting to those around you. Lighten up and quit taking yourself so seriously. As a woman I would rather date someone with an amazing personality over great looks any time. Your appearance will only get you so far.