Is "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" true about women ?

Youre storys too long so I skimmed and Im answering based off your question. The answer is no. If you treat them mean, they`ll stab your splein. Usually the girls that stick around with guys who treat them the crap are those that have a low self esteem. Be confident but dont be a doormat, thats probably what youre doing wrong. You let girls step all over you and stuff. Dont turn into an a*shole just bc girls wont look at the nice guy.......