Thursday, July 21, 2011

Examples of movie and television characters that fit one of Erikson's 8 stages of personality development?

I barely do my own homework I doubt people will offer to do yours for free. Now if you gave a little money away...Maybe.

Which of these will you find more astounding?

I doubt if there would be time for anyone to repent as we will be changed in the twinkling of an eye, not much time to repent ;-)

Where would you like to see attacked by zombies?

I'm not asking about which cities you hate the most, (Although by the looks of things, zombies will have a hard time attacking Vancouver!) I was just wondering since there is a new game coming out, Dead Island, in which zombies attack a holiday resort. This made me consider where else it might be cool to see zombies. We've seen them in towns and cities hundreds of times, why not anywhere more interesting? The most imaginative suggestion will win best answer. Maybe you could include reasons why the characters would be there, how they will survive and why your suggestion will make for an interesting location in a zombie apocalypse. Thanks a lot!

Can you believe that Michele Bachmann wrote out a speech saying John Adams ended slavery?

john quincy adams died i think 6 years (1859 or 60 in his chair on the floor at the us house )before the emancipation proclamation but he fought for it his whole life.

Any advice for a girl that is jealous of her cousin?

What you need to do is not care what Valintina is doing. If you want to write a book. do it. if you want to live in New York. Go ahead. Its a big city and noones stoppin ya. You give Valintina too much credit, she probly doesnt realize what she's doing, or maybe she does. but do you really want to give her the attention? Just ignore what she wants and do whats good for you and what you want. Tell someone about whats happening. Because by the way you ranted in this question i'd say ya need it. and im not being mean just blunt. Be what you want to be and dont let jelousy or upstagement get in your way. when they compare you to her take it as motivation to be urself. Dont try to not be like her, it will only frustrate you. Just be you. and if ya dont know you that is, well neither does every other teen. So dont worry about it, i know that it seems hard and that your probly ready to explode, so let it out. Rant to the skies, run til ya pass out(not really it sucks when that happens), do something to let it out and help yourself. But remember that other people are going through the same thing everywhere and people are going to judge you and are going to be rude, but you've got to learn to deal with it and not by self harm. instead use it as motivation. I remember my grandma got me a pair of pants that where HUGE a couple years ago and i mean huge. and she said id grow into them. well it hurt my feelings because to me it meant she thought i was going to be that big when i got older, but then i got mad and got to where im a healthy weight :) and i know the situations are not near the same but use negetive stuff to make a positive impact on your life. I really hope this helped

Why do Democrats scoff at the idea of being Socialists, and then say we need Socialism in the USA?

NO Democrat (or anyone else) can cite even one way Democrat policy differs from Socialists' - which is of course WHY all Democrats deny having anything whatsoever in common with socialists.

How can I guide myself as a man?

My father died and couldn't deal with life (he died from alcoholism) and my mother overprotected me to the point she made me somewhat insecure. How can I find the motor to have initiative and not being afraid of other men or in other words not let myself being stepped on in business and whatnot? I never had a good paternal figure to be guided with. Any ideas?

How do I know when a girl likes me (teenager)?

My step dad told me that at his high school reunion, girls told him that they liked him in high school, but he never had the initiative. Now, I am in high school and feel like there are girls who like me, but I don't want to be denied by them if I ask...how can I tell if they like me?

Why do I not bother asking girls out?

I am 28 years old, told I am good looking, cool to be around, etc. I am naturally shy but I have opportunities left and right to date and for some reason I dont take the initiative to ask these girls out. I was once in a 4 year relationship ..which ended badly 2 years ago. It might have something to do with this, really not sure. Anyway, I like this girl at work who I havent spoken to much but she has left obvious signs that she is interested in me. For one, she left one of my accounts on my desk with the note, "Here you go pretty eyes :)" . I go home on Fridays sometimes and think how I would like to date her or maybe someone else but I dont take the initiative. Why? She has and others have obviously given me green lights but I just choose to be alone.

Why is illegal immigration so tolerated in the USA?

The liberals are controlling America. They think that anyone is welcome to come to America when ever they want to. If people from other countries want to come to America, they should get a passport. Illegal aliens are also good for cheap labor. That is one reason they aren't always sent back to where they came from.

Why do people(teachers esp) think just because you do poorly in school you won't pass Boot Camp?

Being one of the people teachers told I would never amount to anything, it is because they see that you are not putting any effort into anything, and you're not even trying. So they figure when you get to boot camp you're going to act the same way. It's very narrow minded of them but that's the way they think.

Does New York have a voter initiative provision in its constitution?

I believe they have some sort of process, but it's nowhere near as easy as the majority vote Constitutional amendments they have in California.

Do most religions take away initiative and personal human growth?

Generally - religions take away YOUR personal human growth and substitute their own. So some poor dumb believer who has been propagandized from birth will do anything - including die - for his church.

Newborn kitten has an open wound on it's shoulder ?

if it is not seeming to bother either mother or kitten I would not worry, a mother will abandon or eat her babies if they are unhealthy... make sure you are feeding mama cat a good source of protein and good luck I have a cat am fostering from the humane society and she had 6 kittens all found homes and she may have to go b ack to the kennel there as she is not making nice with my dog.. It will break my heart to let her go back but maybe someone will adopt her

Where did God come from?

I ask because, if the common answer is "he was always there", why do Christians often scoff at the thought of the universe always existing?

What is the best quality mass emailing software?

Hi, I have been googling emailing software for the past two hours and reading their websites. I am very confused which ones might be the best. Their websites do not help because they are cluttered and I have no idea about the qualities and features of their products. Maybe I am just too impatient to click on the hundred links they have in their sites just to find out absolutley nothing about what I want to know. I am looking for a quality emailing software product. When I say quality I mean that I want a software that works all the time and is easy to use. I need to be able to send mass emails, easily design and send html emails, track if the emails were opened and so on, have email templates, and have all the other good stuff a quality email software would have. I dont want one that works half *** or that is missing key features. Can someone please point me in the right direction that knows about emailing software or that can recommend the software that you use because it works so well. Thank you so much to anyone that can help me.

If God is forgiving then wouldn't I go to heaven and there is no need for hell?

I saw this question on an answer. Hell, according to the bible, was designed for the rebellious angels that left their positions. Some suggest they are the sons of God that came to the earth to be with the women of human men as genesis clearly states. The offspring would be the heroes of old, men of legend, implying the source of myth and ancient stories. Any one following the teachings of the fallen angel and the other angels who follow in his footsteps would be considered his children and not God's. God's children would respond to His voice and receive the free gift of forgiveness and payment of punishment for our disobedience to His laws that are evident in nature. Hell is totally avoidable and not designed for us. The enemy is mad about this and will press upon a humans stubbornness and addiction to constant self indulgence to keep them unwilling to even look at God's offer. They in turn scoff and convince themselves that this God does not exist. Evidence of God is not the issue. It is the desires of the heart. Atheists can say there is no God and no hell but it won't make either go away. I have sinned enough for a few families so I have a deep understanding of what God has done for me so this is all easy to say. God IS forgiving but hell was not intended for humans. There is need for it as it is punishment for the fallen and those who follow them and refuse a free gift from the Creator. It's a choice. Yes God wants obedience and this would make free will seem not to be free if we choose God, but for the one who chooses obedience you are showing God something other than chasing desires. You are showing that you want something greater than what this world has to offer. The God of the bible says that the rewards of this obedience to his set laws will result in storing up riches in a new life, an eternal life with new bodies and new adventures. God is looking for obedience in this temporal life. 'This is a test, this is a test. This is only a test.' Respect to Tommy Victor.

As Japanese people don't like straightforwardness, how to know if one doesn't like me?

They will be " too busy " to write, e-mail, ETC. What it really means is they aren't interested but don't want to hurt your feelings.

Writers: What are 3 ways in which your MC takes the initiative?

Taking the initiative is something my MC learns; it's how she changes, develops through the story. She's very quiet and in her early teens; happy to have an adventure, but never one to create her own, though likely to do something stupid that puts her life in danger.

7th grader clothing items and makeup?

Oh! You should try watching some youtube tutorials on youtube. That's where I learned!! I even have a channel for those videos. It's called HeathersBeautyStop. So you can check it out if you want. Clothing wise. I would recommend shopping. Yard sales, thrift stores if you want really cheap. But some other stores that are good are. Mandees, Charllote Russe and forever twenty one. You can also find some cute stuff at target or Kmart. Especially in the dream out loud collection at Kmart. I really love that. Make up wise you could buy it at drug stores cheap. And you can look up tutorial for medium length hair on youtube. I could even make a few tutorials if you want! I'm also planning to make a make up routine video! So yea! I really hope I helped you!!!!

I found a deleted conversation my boyfriend had with a really pretty girl?

If everything is like you're making is sound, he was flirting with her, and that he's extremely clingy to you and paranoid of losing you because he has no idea why you'd date a schlub like him. This makes no sense to me and I don't think I'm getting the whole story, even with that wall of text, though him asking her to show him shaking her *** is not good, very bad in fact. Nothing to do with him for 5 days to the vacation is a worse plan though, if he truly doesn't understand, you're leaving him in the dark, and he'll just get confused and angry at you.

Is this paragraph good?

An enthusiastic and hard worker who accomplishes tasks with a mindset of never giving up and achieving full potential at the job presently at hand. Learns quickly and uses initiative to get tasks done efficiently. Communicates well with others, team player and can take the lead or follow, as necessary. Is creative and has great problem-solving and organizational skills.

Trinitarians ! Do you realize that you?

Are worshiping a false God. The Bible does not teach that Jesus is God. It teaches that he is only the Son of God according to 1 John 5:5 and a hundred other scriptures.

Are we are doomed to be destroyed?

No matter what we do, if we avoid being hit by a meteor, a nuclear holocaust, catastrophic global warming - when the sun goes supernova that'll be it, all traces of humanity gone, all we have created, learnt - even our detritus - whoosh all a bit burnt & crispy in the blink of an eye. So what is the point? People often say "it'll not make any difference in a hundred years" so what about in 4.5 billion.

Anyone else have a stupid dog?

If you are gonna bxxch about the dog..... I don't even know why you got it in the first place. And what are you trying to ask? ... >.>

How to talk to my boyfriend about spending problems?

We are one hundred short on rent this month and don't have much food in the house. We have enough packs of chicken for dinner but I have been skipping breakfast and lunch. I am going to be able to borrow money from a friend for the rent. I just checked my boyfriend's bank account and he has been out to eat every day for the pass two weeks. So now we are least another 75 short. He knew we didn't have that money to spend. I guess I will try to find a way to scramble up the money but how do I talk to him about his spending situation. I am so pissed. I mean I'm sitting here eatincroutons while he's out getting Chinese. Oh and to add I'm allowed access to his account.

What email provider do you prefer?

I am fully aware I am asking this on yahoo. There are hundreds of email providers out there but one will obviously be better than the others. I have had major problems with Windows Live (spam, hacking etc.) I like Yahoo but on some computers it slows them down. Gmail is okay but it doesn't have a good instant messenger. So what I'm asking is for more then one opinion on what the best email/IM provider is.

Do you think welfare should be limited to 1 year?

I agree with you, should be some type of limitations. There are people say with families, and a spouse passed away, or a disability, but for being unemployed should be a limitation, or if you do get some type of welfare payment, my idea, Is states should have there own grocery stores,where if your on aid, thats where you shop, and only thing in the store would be items to live on, it would be very regulated if i was in charge. If a husband and wife work,say with 3 kids, they are actually feeding and providing for another family, so where is the tax break for that? Reform, entire system needs to be re- vamped for sure!

Does my paragraph flow well?

No it does not. This looks like a run-on sentence full of self-congratulatory boilerplate. I hope you really do communicate well with others, but it's not an objective skill or something you;ve demonstrated that you can do (like learning a foreign language or earning a special certificate). If you are going to pat yourself on the back, you don;t want to go overboard with "bursts with creativity and has great problem-solving and organizational skills".

Which paragraph sound better?

I answered this elsewhere. The second version is better because if you leave out "is," you are leaving out a verb in a way that unbalances your paragraph structure. It would be the only omitted verb in the paragraph.

In your opinion, is this shelter committing animal cruelty?

Yes, in my opinion you have enough information to sue them if you REALLY wanted to. They could get in a lot of trouble for this. You might want to ask other people if they have had any problems with the animals. For instance, if you know someone who has adopted a pet from that shelter than ask them if they had problems with the pet. But yes, this should be illegal. :b

How does a person maintain interest in a book so as to read much of it in one sitting?

I've managed to read some books in one sitting but then again, they're rarely 'hard going' books but more like, easy reading fiction and things like Twilight :p I find the same like you for books I have to read but then I just keep working through them, telling myself that in this hour I will read it and try and get to a certain page number. If its boring I work on chapters/page numbers and getting over them. If it's interesting to me then I don't even remember those techniques.

Should love make you sad/nervous/sick/nauseated?

wow this is sad....you are worth so much more i hope you realize that having a child with this loser is going to make things worse..im sorry to say but you are very stupid for letting this man proceed into your life any further. take a look at reality hun.

DESPERATE: are my chances at college completely screwed?

Your parents should be arrested. In the state of Georgia that is illegal and social services will take you away. Since you never registered its like you have no school whatsoever. you are screwed.

How to become showbiz material?

I was born to a poor couple as their first child, and they weren't able to put me in any sorts of lessons, but they didn't mind, they weren't very interested in the arts. They can't sing, don't dance, and never act. So, I have no idea why I am so fond of the creative arts. Through 8 years, my family kept getting richer; my dad got promoted to a better job, and my parents had their 4th child- my youngest sister. They dress her in designer brands and give her opportunities that I never had. They put her in a ballet school at the age of four because they had spare money, so in her future it is possible for her to have a dancing career. I really liked watching her ballet concert, so I begged my parents to let me go to the ballet school as well. They let me, but according to my research, it is impossible for me to become a professional ballet dancer since I didn't start lessons when I was little. I was put out, and worked harder during my lessons. One day, I told my parents about my dreams of breaking into showbiz: they scoffed at me. They told me that I should focus on dreams that were possible. I was heartbroken, there was nothing else I wanted to do in my future. I searched up acting and singing lessons on the Internet, and sites told me that I have to have had numerous lessons to be a professional singer/ actress on something big and glamorous like broadway. My parents laughed and told me that millions and millions of people try out for broadway, and they all have had professional training for years, I would be no competition, and that it is impossible for me. I am already 13, and everyone tells me it's too late. So will I never get a choice? Was it supposed to be a choice my parents make when I was still little? Please, tell me the truth- is it impossible and too late for me to pursue my dreams, or is there something I can do to follow my heart? Please help. Thanks

Did I make a good choice with my college?

It's not always the school...it's what you make of it. You made a wise choice if you visited them both, talked to current students/counselors. and chose the one that felt more like home to you. They are both good schools though. Emory is a little better, but you're in Baylor's honors college so it shouldn't be of much difference when applying to medical school. A college that feels like home is a must, especially if you're pre-med. Good Luck with college!

Puppy's tummy is alittle big... Help?

Hi my pup is a male mini schnauzer, about three month old. His belly is a bit big, scared it's bloat. He has been acting normal, sleeping a bit at my feet under table and attempting to chew plant etc. He hasn't pooped in about five and a half hours roughly but has been letting off gas... I can smell it... Im not really sure if it's been dramatic... I don't think it has... But he is quite eager to eat but has been a bit calmer in terms of not scoffing anymore but does get it down quickly.... We feed him eukanuba... Super premium. We re gonna prob be anyway taking him to vet tomorrow but just waiting for his pet passport so we know if he will need another vaccination now... So what do you think... It's night aswell.... So do you think he'll be ok... Or is it probably worms.... Or does he just need to poop or something??? I hope it's not bloat!!!! Well anyway thanks!!!

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Are there any good chess books that discuss bad opening choices and why they're bad?

the difference between a good opening and a bad opening is usually easy to determine by simply counting tempo. For example your center counter variant is cleary bad, because you lost a tempo.

Why don't guys respond to me properly? I'm told I have a great personality and looks so whats wrong?

This isn't just one of those questions to seek attention. Seriously, I see them stare and we talk flirt smile etc etc etc. But when they don't make a move and I take the initiative (like casually ask them for a drink) they just don't reply. Or take ages to. Like I msged this guy 2 days ago and he still hasn't replied. Please help me to understand it is so bizarre! Mature answers would help

Dream about impressing people with something really easy?

Hm. If you look at the posts of middle school age children here on y/a, you might find that many of them can't spell even simple words, even something as simple as "our" which I often see written as "are". I couldn't say if it is because the school systems aren't measuring up, or if they're really bright kids with bad parenting, or if they're just plain dumb, but there are plenty of them on here. At the heart of this dream is that you are doing something that others consider extraordinary, and that you impress people with being smart. I had to look up the word just to find out what it means, so I could see if it had any bearing on this imagery. It seems to be a mathematics term. Looking at your post, and at a couple of your more recent questions, you are obviously very bright and articulate, and tackling mathematics questions that would leave me completely baffled. At the heart of this imagery, you're getting accolades for being above average, for rising above the standard. Or maybe being singled out as not the standard or the norm. Based on the rest of your post, you seem to find it hard to wrap your mind around the idea that you're smarter than the average bear. So I guess it's up to you to think on this awhile, it could be something like even though you're obviously smart, maybe you have low self esteem and tell yourself that you're not really smarter than average, or as smart as others think you are. Or you could be self conscious about how smart you are, feeling like a fish out of water around your peers, trying to fit in with people who obviously don't operate at the same level as you do (I can dig it. When I was in school I pretended to a lower standard in order to try and fit in better, I was aware that some of my classmates were uncomfortable with the standard I was at. Be careful about doing such a thing though, it brings on some bad habits that you won't want in your professional life, and school isn't forever, when you are older you will find it easier to attract people you can relate to better). Or you could be giving yourself an "atta boy" for something you accomplished during the day. Or you could be a little insecure and in need of someone to tell you that you're smarter than average once in awhile, or that you measure up to standards. Or you could be noting that you hold yourself and others to a higher standard. Or you could be studying too hard and thinking about math so much you're going over math terms in your sleep. You may be coming up on some exams and worried about the result. I imagine there are probably a couple of other notions that I've missed, but I guess it's up to you to think on your outlook for a while, and see if you can figure out what it is in your attitude toward yourself and your outlook toward the rest of the world, hopefully I have pointed you in a direction you can work with.

What should I do about this girl that hates me?

If the girl hates you stay away from her. and one thing about the women of america is that they like to call the cops. If you don't want to get arrested just stay away from her. Don't even talk to her or say hi to her.

Should i join funguppy? are they real? can you really get traffic to your website this way?

and how many people on facebook can i send their jokes to? can i only send them to friends, or just anyone? i'm new on facebook and don't really know the rules, but someone i've never heard of already sent me something. can i send jokes to hundreds of people of facebook?

Why don't guys like me?! What am I missing?

Just be you. I get the impression that you think a lot about what others think about you. The world doesn't about you so stop caring about it. Once you become more secure as a person, everything will fall into place and you will find someone. Hope this helps :)

How to obtain my 1989 Panama Birth Abroad Certificate.... HELP PLEASE.....losing optimism?

I was born on September 26,1989 in Panama on a military base. They only gave my parents one birth certificate, and that was the hospitals. I went to get my driver's permit in August of 2007, a couple of month away from my 18th birthday.When I passed the test, the application asks where you were born. I wrote Panama.The clerk asked for my birth certificate, and than continued to inform us that it wasn't valid due to not saying 'Birth Abroad'. My parents have gone through every possible emassy, department, etc. and have even sent hundreds of dollars; however they all have no evidence of my existence. I am not 21 going on 22 and I still have no Drivers License or passport. I am burnt out and losing optimism. PLEASE HELP...Please

Where to buy inexpesive longboards?

so i recently got into longboarding. i mostly just use my friends board, but i really want to buy my own. i was looking at zumiez and they have good ones, but they are in the hundreds...and since its my first board i don't really want to spend that much. if i have to i will though. but i was wondering if anyone knew where you could get good boards for not to much money? thanks:)

Tips and Ideas on a Story Plot?

I am a bit strange in my ways, but i live by them. First u need to figure out the exact place u want to end, i usually write the last few chapters first. Then put urself into that last scene where u got stuck and pretend u r the protagonist... and speak to the other characters. Its easier to think up how they will respond if u feel like u r really talking to them. U dont have to do it aloud, but try it before u call me crazy. :)

Is be giving me the brush off?

He seems shyish. Suggest the day and time. If you like him youre going to have to make the first move for a kiss. Once the ice is broken he should be ok.

Agree or Disagree: the "Obama administration's record on secrecy and surveillance is a disgrace"?

The Founders of the United States were deep students of politics and history, and they shared Aristotle's concern. Up through their time, history had shown all known democracies to be "incompatible with personal security or the rights of property." James Madison and others held that the "first object of government" was to protect the rights of property. Numerous provisions of the Constitution and Bill of Rights were incorporated to protect the property rights of citizens from the power of the government.

Tax question --- getting the IRS to act?

I am the guy who went in and filed 3 years worth of taxes two weeks ago because the IRS had inputed my income and thought I owed them a lot of taxes and penalties. As it turns out, once I finally filed the 1040's, I have a refund for 2 of the years and I just owe a few hundred for the third year...not the $44,000 the IRS inputed for me. But even though I have now filed the late tax returns and they show I don't own anything like $44,000, the IRS advisor I am working with says it will be 8 to 10 weeks before my returns are processed, and in the meantime the IRS will continue to pursue me for the $44,000. He says I could have my bank account leined, etc, but that if they take my money they will probably refund it at some later date. But that would shut me down as far as writing checks, ect. This guy with the IRS says there is no way he can halt the process until the returns are finally processed by the IRS. Does anyone know of a way that I can get the IRS office where I turned in the taxes (and which AGREES that I owe nothing or little at all) to simply pick up the phone and talk with the collections office? This is crazy!

How do I tell my parents that I don't want to be an architect?

Well, the thing is when I first told my parents that I want to be a journalist, they scoffed at the idea. They're Indians and being Indians they told me to pick another career. Saying, "I don't know I'll figure it out" isn't really an option. So, I just said "an architect...I guess". I never really thought that they would take me seriously. My dad even went and bought a ton of books on architecture and gave them to me to read. The thing is, I never really let go of that dream of being a journalist. It sounds amazing, to be able to travel, to be able learn and see new things. TO WRITE! So, how should I tell them that my future is up to me?

How should I get my friends to stop laughing at astrology?

Study their chart by getting their birthdays, then casually let them in on how they might react, the ways they might think or feel during conversations with them...when they ask how did you know that, tell them its what astrology says about you. A really great book to get "The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need" by Joanna Martine Woolfolk. It is very inexpensive under $20 and comes with a cd to run charts....one of the best books for someone new to astrology because its so easy to follow and understand!

Is Sony really relasing passive 3D TV next year?

I heard Sony will release a passive 3D TV next year bundling their PS3 and will release hundreds of 3D games. Are the passive 3D TVs better for gaming? Is that why Sony is manufacturing their 3D TVs passive, even though they were originally manufacturing active 3D TVs?

Why are the deadly E.Coli cucumbers out to get us? Is it revenge for all the salads we've scoffed?

Because a lettuce starts to weaken and go limp as soon as it is picked, they need something like the cucumbers, which are much stronger, to fight their battles for them! What about the attack of the killer tomatoes eh?

Did you know there's a shortage of drugs thanks to the FDA?

It's just a ploy to rip off more money from the average American. The drugs are all harmful anyway and should never have gotten to market.Try and find one man-made drug that doesn't have serious side-effects. They all do and most don't do anything but treat the symptoms of illnesses. NONE of them cure anything! The FDA is run by the former CEO's of various Big Pharm corporations, or the Big Pharm CEO's are recruited from the the FDA, it's all the same brand of deceit and it's all we have, shame.

I have to memorize all of Hiragana by tomorrow morning... I really need help. ;-;?

Okay, so my mum signed me up for these japanese lessons, now I have short term memory loss, and dyslexia.. ahem.. so it's kinda hard to memorize this stuff, all the kids in the class already memorized them all in just one day, which was today. I didn't. I can't.. I have read them at least a couple hundred times now. Any ways I could try to memorize it better..? dammit I'm screwed.

What do you do with your cat when you go on holiday?

My cats are indoor cat so if i leave for only a couple of days I leave a giant bowl of food, a giant bowl of water, an extra litter box, and the temp control of the house on at level appropriate for the season. If I were to leave for longer and had no family I would use a pets sitting service like "FETCH" to come check on them every day or two. You can google "FETCH" and other services on line. Please don't lock kitty in a cage outside in the weather with no heat or air. Good Luck

A poem in a form I'd like to stick with for a bit, may I ask for C/C?

Are you asking for approval if your poem is poorly written, or a chance to consider what an edit may do to improve it? If I recall the person you speak of, yes, he seems to be ever tactful. I guess in the long run you'll have to decide how you want your poetry to evolve.

When will the Tea Party become more "People Friendly" and quit catering to violent Imbeciles?

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Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Father,Son & Holyspiirit will do anything alone or together? genesis 1:1-3,john 5:30,john 8:28?

I can of my own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgment is just; because I seek not my own will, but the will of the Father which has sent me. john 5:30 I do nothing on My own initiative, but I speak these things as the Father taught Me.john 8:28

Is my writing any good? Answer honestly!?

It is good! However it does seem to drag on and it needs to get to the point. You use some words that are not needed. Like where you say the glass was all foggy. You could have left it at foggy or put covered in fog. Not all foggy doesn't seem proper. But it is very good! I give you an 8:)

Relationship Advice PLEASE HELP:(?

Maybe this girl you like feels that what you want is just "too much." She might feel suffocated. Try giving her a little space. If she hangs out with Mike for a while that may give her the chance to think about things. Maybe she will find herself appreciating you more. You can't force her to care for you. It hasn't "just happened" as it did with you, so you must be patient. O.K.?

Why would there be gasoline in the intake of my 3100sfi lumina 1998?

Ok.. Basicaly it sounds like the gas which should be vaporised is pooling in the intake. Its likely getting in because its not getting burned. I have seen this with both fuel and oil. The smog equipment on the car recirculates a percentage of exhause and crankcase vapors. Unless those misfires are caused by a bad spark plug or wire this will not be a cheap fix.

What hypocrisy pisses you off?

I hate it when ppl say women cant have guy friends too!!! but i cant stand the "Christians" out there where it is go out clubbing on Saturday and go to church on Sunday then do it all over again

POLL: Should I get breast implants? Serious advice and honest opinions please?

I had a breast augmentation. I am 5'4" 105lb and wore a 32B pre-surgery. Now I wear a 32DD and love the results. I felt like a little girl before and love how they look now. I would recommend it if you really want to enhance the size of your breasts.

PLEASE HELP ME!!! I'm afraid that he is going to forget me... What should I do?

chat with him of fb...if he likes you he will talk to you if he doesnt then he wont respond he if you chat him he wont be able to forget you!

Emory vs. UGA in money and major?

It really all depends on your preference...if you think it is worth saving an extra 2k to transfer than do that, but if you want the prestige of going to Emory, stay there. Either way, if you do good, you will get into medical school somewhere, so it really just depends on what you think you would like better.

What's happening with this guy?

its possible that he may have had to disconnect his net or perhaps he is just too busy to be on facebook but i think he's fo sho into you :)

This girl just chucks sheet music right at me and doesn't say sorry...?

well you can't really do anything now except ignore her....she just sounds like a mean girl. and you don't wanna hang out with those types of girls

Job application question HELP please?

it depends: if you know what your next task is then, yes start the new task. if you don't then patiently wait for the manager to return

How can I get rid of my pasty/pale/light skin? (Read below to get a full understanding)?

Hi there. Over the past 8 months I have used my initiative and went about changing my looks. I started off on my body, and worked really hard, and therefore have obtained a six pack and really nice big arms. So yes, I have got myself a really nice toned body which I did not have 8 months ago. Now, I want to improve on my face. I have natural light/pasty/pale skin, compared to dark tanned skin which people tend to love more. I have a really good diet (seeing as I have spent the last 8 months working on my body) consisting of plenty of fruit, vegetables, water, as well as green tea. Obviously I also have a required intake of protein, and I always eat proper meals. I also get good sleep and regular sunlight. However, I still have light/pasty skin. Is there anything I can do to get rid of my pasty/pale/light skin? To look good and to change my looks is my dream :)

How to scrape bacteria from agar plate?

I have 180 plates with hundreds thousand of single and each differentially unique colonies. I need to pool all the bacteria. The problem is some of the plates are stored in 4c for around one week and when I try to scrape them off, they are like mucus and very hard to resuspend them in broth. Even vortex doesn't help much. I try to pellet down the bacteria but there is no distinct pellet formed, but layers of insoluble "mucus". So I ended up only take the bottom layer and suspend it and discard all the upper layers. My question is: will it be possible the bacteria from the "old plates" (those that form mucus) is not present in the final bacteria suspension? As they are all in the mucus layers which I have already discarded. I just want to make sure my final bacteria suspension contains ALL the single unique bacteria from ALL the plates. Even one single bacteria will do.

Was this counselor out of line?

I do think that was very out of line, and not to mention rude and just plain mean of him to treat u like that when the reason people call that line in the first place is to try to feel better, and all he was doing was making things worse. ur completely right to be upset about this :)

Where can i get feather hair extentions for a cheap price?

i need a few hundred since im adding it to my hair salon. anyone know where i can get different colors and kinds for a really good price?

I think my son has ADHD?

I think people are TOO quick to medicate their children, and a little more discipline would do all of today's young people some good!!! When I was growing up, kids didnt have ADHD or ADD or Adderall or Ridalin....if we didnt listen or threw fits, we got our butts tore up, and we learned our lesson!! And I think we turned out just fine!

How does someone get 440,000 point or more on this yahoo answers?

How is it possible for someone to get hundreds of thousands of points. I noticed even some that have tens of thousands of points barely ask questions.

Can someone help me? pleasee?

A missile is fired at an angle of 85 from the horizontal. At one point, its speed was 1,000 mph. Find its horizontal velocity in miles per minute. (Round to the nearest hundredth.)

Is it appropriate to ask to job shadow at a position I'm applying for?

It depends on your company culture. If it is a normal practice for applicants to shadow the position they are applying for it is probably ok. What if there are two or more applicants that want to job shadow to show interest, it could put the hiring manager in an awkward position. In other companies there are strict pre-selection policies that frown on anything that may give one candidate an unfair advantage. In that environment shadowing an employee in the position you are applying for would be a prohibited practice. Since your boss and other managers suggested you make the request it is good that you did so. Don't get too upset if your request is not granted. It would be inappropriate for the acting manager who is in the job you want to shadow to make the decision. Perhaps you can discuss it with your boss or the other manager to get their advice. In my opinion you have done all you can do for now. Don't take it as a negative sign if you do not get to shadow the job, there may be a reason the hiring manager wants to ensure there are no complaints filed when a selection is made. Good luck The PracticaL Mentor

When do you think America will be more accepting of gay people?

Do you think it's getting better? It seems like it definitely is, but a little less than half of the country are still bigoted people that will scoff at two men or two women kissing each other.

Why do people pick on Fundamentalists?

In school, I was always scoffed at, ignored, and insulted. You have to accept gays, blacks, Catholics, Jehovahs Witnesses, Lutherans, Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Bi's Asians, And every other group as long as they are not religious fundamentalists. I've been called a sadist, biggot, and self righteous. What is wrong with people in this world?

I have tiny transparent larvae that seem to transport by crawling over each other. This occures outside?

I have tiny transparent larvae that seem to transport by crawling over each other. This occurs outside? They were seen coming from the grass area to patio. There were at least hundreds or more that made up what looked like 2 mop strands. They have what seems like black eyes

Monday, July 18, 2011

How to deal with a rude fellow student (in graduate school !?)?

I'm having trouble dealing with some fellow graduate students that seem to have regressed to high school. I don't know anything about classroom dynamics and I'm beginning to get worried about this because the only answers I got when I googled this question were about situations with high school students, not twenty-something adults. My problem consists of a few insensitive female students who seem to get pleasure from embarassing other students in front of the professors. For example, if a student raises his or her hand to ask a question, and the professor takes it lightly or he plainly doesn't like it, these girls start rolling their eyes and turning their faces away in a 'Valley girl' stereotype-style. The other day I made the mistake of going to one of the professor's office along with my assignment partner to talk to him about something. The bitchiest of the 'Valley girls' was there (by the way, she and this male professor get along well) and my partner made the even bigger mistake of asking the professor for the grade of a previous assignment. Neither of us were happy with the grade we received, so we tried to talk the professor into reconsidering the reasons for which he took some points from us. As soon as my partner opened his mouth to say something, Alpha Valley Girl was already rolling her eyes and turning her head to the opposite direction. I felt so disrespected by her body language and by the fact that she was seating right across from the professor and he did nothing. He said he wouldn't reconsider our grades, but still, that didn't have anything to do with the fact that one of his students was openly disrespecting other students in his very office. And it's not like this is the first time she does this in front of him. I haven't heard anyone else complain about these Valley Girls' attitudes, but I'm certainly angry AND humiliated. If they would have pulled this **** as undergraduate students in my faculty, I'm pretty sure any of the professors would have stopped them right on their tracks and they would have been scoffed by the other students as the spoiled whiners they are. (I mean, how come at this stage of their lives nobody has sat them down and explained to them that rolling their eyes while someone speaks denotes really bad manners.) But, ironically, on graduate school nobody seems to care, or at least nobody talks about it. It's like they forgot about politeness and respect for other people's questions and doubts, and just went right back to teenage-land. What I would like to know is how to let this girl know that she's being a jerk, in a polite and CLASSY way.

Why isn't society doing more about child sexual abuse?

Because society (As disgusting as it sounds) is more focused on what celebrities are doing and the latest trends.

Marriage has failed. Now what? I believe marriage has failed and never worked anyway .......?

Marriage hasn't failed, and its not a construct some 100 years old, its around as long as recorded civilization. What has happened is progressive liberals have realized that reducing your reliance on existing old institutions like church + marriage increases your reliance on government, which increases their power. So they have pursued over the last few hundred years policies that do all they can to break down existing institutions other then government. Its pretty obvious if you look at it - support for vague spirituality but any specific religion is a problem, teaching that the children are more important than the spouse, the whole "do what feels good" movement, etc.

Did my boyfriend break up with me? PLZ HELP?

I'm in a relation with a guy who's also my classmate, we've been together for 6 months, and we love each other. We had the final exams a couple of days ago, we were studying together, and he said that when we finish the finals he will be free and he won't see me anymore (it was supposed to be a joke), so I went with the flaw and said this too (as a joke), and we kept on repeating it, and laughing. We finished the finals on Friday, and he hasn't called me since that day. I'm so worried that what he said was true but didn't want to hurt my feelings so he made it as a joke. Should I call him? I feel if I call him he will think that I can't live without him and can't take the joke. HELP. Should I call him??? He's the dominant one shouldn't he call and take the initiative? or does that only apply to sex? I don't know what to do it's my first gay relationship

Where does Kreayshawn shop for her clothing?

If you dont know who Kreayshawn is she is a white girl rapper and She has soooo much swag! Does anyone know where she shops? Other than The Hundreds?

I haven't paid rent increases in past but I wasn't asked to do so though it is in lease. What should I do?

I have been renting for 3 years and have always paid the rent. But I never got any notices of rent increases nor any communication whatsoever from the landlord (though the lease does state when and how much the rent increases should have taken effect during the past 3 years). Now my question is should I bring attention to the landlord of my past omissions or error in not paying the rent increases over the years and make amends or can I ignore it since he hadn't asked for the increases? And if I ignore the lease and he realizes this, does he have grounds to evict me? Is not taking the initiative myself and paying the rent increases a breach of the lease agreement?

Is it wrong to have just a cuddle buddy?

There's this guy, the first guy I was ever interested in, the first guy I ever kissed. I was really naive then, and fell for his type. He's a sweet guy as a friend, but a major player. Really cute with a really nice body. He's just NOT boyfriend material. It's been a long time, I've grown up a lot, and I am one hundred and FIFTY percent over him. Just to get that straight. I've been through other guys since then, and if anything, still have feelings for THEM. He's been texting and calling me more lately. Last weekend we were at a gathering together and ended up cuddling while everybody was watching a movie. He's literally the best cuddler ever. And I don't have any feelings like that for him anymore. Is it wrong to use him as just a cuddle buddy if he doesn't want anything more either?

Im stumped please helpp!!?

I don't know what you are stumped about. You have instructions that tell you exactly what to do. If this is too hard for you to do, then maybe you need to go to a lower grade level and learn how to look up words in the dictionary, and how to write sentences. No one here will do the work for you.

Does my dad show symptoms of bipolar disorder?

No actually that is not even close to Bipolar. Sounds like your dad may be a combination of depressed and an a$$hole..... just because he is an a$$hole does not mean he is Bipolar.. that is mean to people with Bipolar...

Why can't we get along?

I'm Wiccan neo-pagan. Every body just scoffs at it. It is a religion. It is a belief in which I stand firmly beside. And I will not back down from. My father is Christian my mother is Christian my whole family is christian. I have Christian friends and they accept me for who I am. Why can't we just shut up about who is right and who is wrong. I was tought thru my studies that don't go up agianst other peoples reliegion we don't like t when you do it to us so we dot do it to you. Why can't we just stop arguing and talk like humans who have a level head and calm mind?

Pekingese dog sick :(?

i have an 1 and a 1/2 year old Pekingese girl. she vomited something green, and now is huffing and scoffing, as well. we're going to the vet tomorrow, but does anyone know how to make her feel better till tomorrow, any solutions, or what the problem is? thanks so much

Marrieds, is this normal at all?

I can’t tell if my husband is just not initiative or if I am being impatient. I am usually the one to bring up important issues (such as our future planning) for discussion. Sometimes I think that maybe he is too proud to discuss with me anything and sometimes I think that he is not as interested as I am. The worst part is that he hates it when I initiate these discussions, I he seems to feel it’s in his place as a man to do that but if I don’t bring it up I wait and wait for months and months and still no word from him even after I request him to. A few times he finally addresses the issue at his own time and suddenly things happen fast but by then I’ll be so unhappy about it. Is it normal for men to act this way? What could be the problem?

Should I be grateful?

Maybe you and your mom should go it alone. See how long he lasts then. Some bosses are despots with small dog syndrome....but most are decent people.

How do I be liked by NCR?

I've done the bounty missions, "killed" Ceasers Legion, killed hundreds of fiends but when I was a REPCONN Headquarters a chick said that I had to get my NCR rep up in three days or else they will start attacking me. How do I get at least neutral so I can keep Boone as a follower and not get attacked.

Huge lot of legos to sell?

I have hundreds of Lego sets I have bought over many years. I just don't have room or time for my collection anymore. It takes up almost a whole room in my home. I was wondering what would be a good asking price?

Is "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" true about women ?

Youre storys too long so I skimmed and Im answering based off your question. The answer is no. If you treat them mean, they`ll stab your splein. Usually the girls that stick around with guys who treat them the crap are those that have a low self esteem. Be confident but dont be a doormat, thats probably what youre doing wrong. You let girls step all over you and stuff. Dont turn into an a*shole just bc girls wont look at the nice guy.......

How can I get started in tiling with no experience?

I am fascinated with tiling, but don't know how I can latch on as an apprentice to anyone. I have a full time desk job, so people would scoff at me wanting to do something like this in the mornings.

Christians, what do you think about this?

i don't know, i would have to be in their shoes to know but from my experience with christians maybe its because how dramatic christians can get with their emotions, as if your emotions represent the whole universe. just my take from associating with emotional christians.

Why is my dog whimpering every time I pick him up?

Hi my dog is a 9 week old chocolate lab puppy and he whimpers when we pick him up. We pick him up by under his arms--like his arm pits. He has never done this before bu he may be tired but we just gave him a half a cup of his food and he scoffed it down like he usually does. We don't know what to do but we felt his body and it seems fine and now he is walking around like usual. Is this normal? Please help!

Is my mother being emotionally abusive?

Try stopping to prove her wrong---in Her eyes. Sounds like she has some issues---maybe offer to go to counseling with her. Talk to your school counselor---I bet she has some good tips for you too.

My only best friend of 13 years is drifting apart from me?

I've always been shy and she's okay. We went to different schools after graduation. She found a new bestfriend and they call each other babe, love ya, things like that. I keep it in my heart and don't say these things. It's always been like that. Everytime she finds a new friend, she'll ignore me and after some time, come back. Classmates would always ask if she's neglecting me. But this time, we're not even in the same school anymore and we're drifting apart so far, I don't even know if we'll get back. I've never had a bf and she has one now. There are more & more differences between us and I'm always the one to ask her out or strike a conversation or comment on her facebook etc but she doesn't take any initiative to talk to me or anything. When she posted a movie trailer, I commented asking if she wanted to watch it together and she didn't even reply. What should I do? I'm also shy and don't have and don't know how to make new friends

Cat still greedy and selfish at 11 months!?

We got a kitten last august which was 6 weeks old. He was abused. Thrown from heights. Bad diet. Thrown around. He's really lovely and our older cat became his big bro in no time, but he is sooo greedy still. He scoffs food as quick as he can, we separate them as if we don't he gulps his down then steals our older cats. If treats r laid down he trys to get them all. He grabs food from peoples hands. How can we teach him? He eats in his own room at feeding time and is told NO firmly when he steals food. But hes nearly 1 and he hasn't changed!!

Is my resume good for a student in the senior year?

It is probably too long, especially for someone at your level in life. You do not use pronouns/sentences in resumes. Yo have a lot of these and they all need to be changed. (NO: "I watched...) you use the third person -Really really cut back interests. No one is going to care what books you read or what you watch on the web. Your grammar & word choice is not quite right for english speaking, but your resume is too long to correct. Is there someone where you live who can help you with this?

Any tips to prevent pounding pain after very long hikes?

After 6,000+ vertical and 15+miles, my feet are usually horribly painful on the hike out. I use boot insoles, I have hundreds of miles in these boots. I've heard of people wearing two pairs of socks, but my feet run extremely hot, I already have the thinnest socks I could bear

Problems with my children's grandparents. (AP mom).?

You did the right thing by stopping contact. An uncaring grandparent does more mental damage to a child then no grandparents. Its their loss. Kids are wondwrfully adaptive and will do fine without them. If your parents miss them or get offended, who cares? Selfish people think so much about themselves that another person thinking about them is just too much attention for one person.

How is the ballot initiative established in a state?

Is there a way to establish the ballot initiative for a state? How did California start with their ballot initiative?

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Do you have advice for me?

I'm so sorry you're having a lot to deal with, I can relate in some ways I suffer from depression, use to self harm myself (cutting), lost my dad when I was 7, just wanted to let you know you're not the only one because I know it can feel that way. I suggest first start taking the time to like yourself and love yourself, talk to your husband about how you feel maybe he will be supporting, after all you are together and communication is key. Try going out maybe getting a job somewhere, try talking to some of the workers at your husbands place. Say this to yourself ''I am beautiful, I am strong, I can do whatever I want, I deserve the best''. Say that to yourself over and over. Write out how you feel if you don't wanna talk to your husband. Try calling some of those family members you never do speak to such as cousins and such. Make a facebook many people are on there and so is your family most likely add them and add their friends. Talking online can be easier then in the real world. Go join a club, go to the park you might meet some other parents there, go to a church if your religious. Life is what you make it, if your sad and depressed feeling sorry for yourself life won't be a sunshine parade. You gotta live it up.

My 6 month old puppy chews everything in the house, but only when we are asleep or not home?

I've tried firmly saying no, swatting her lightly when she chews at night and I catch it. I've tried redirection to toys - we spend at least a hundred dollars a month on puppy chew toys that she just destroys right away. So I bought one that's supposed to be indestructible, but she doesn't chew it for long because she can't tear it apart so she moves on to something new. I lock her in the main kitchen/dining area but she just chews on furniture now. How can I get this to stop? I thought about the spray, but she's taken to chewing my books as well and I can't spray those! Please help!!

Should i go on vacation with my family or stay with my grandparents and work?

This sounds crazy when I ask it like that, but I'll be 16 next month and I really don't want to miss work which means a couple hundred dollars that could have been earned, all down the drain. I'm employed for my grandparents and they are hard-a$$es, so they are kind of pissed that I will be gone.. The only reason I am considering not going is because I really want a car, whcih i have to pay for myself, a laptop, and back to school clothing. if i were to go on vacation, i would miss the money. My parents and brother are going on vacation to cali, but they are going to the part that will be overcast and 70 ish the whole time..so i'm really not missing much. I do want to go, bad, because it is my vacation, but it just seems more logical to stay with my grandparents and work. I asked if i could work overtime and make it up but the buisness doesn't really work like that,it comes in steadily. Also, another lady that works there will be gone the same week as i am so not only were my grandparents even more ticked but its a lot of work to make up when i get back, and way more pressure if i do go. I just don't know what to do becaue I love vacations but it just seems like a hastle to go! :(

What career fits these needs(right answer gets 10 points)?

An accountant. Something revolving around business, where there's always room for promotion and there's an almost guaranteed secure job. Plenty of open spaces!

Should I be grateful even if?

Some bosses are like that, some aren't. I've been fortunate enough to never work under a mean boss. I'm sure you can find a job with people you'll get along with.

Women, please help me gauge my specific penis size?

When that smart person said size doesn't matter, they really meant it. It doesn't matter how big or small you are, it just matters how you use it. I personally wouldn't think that is really small as long as you know how to use it. If you don't think you can please her really then try penis enhancers or whatever until you're comfortable with it.

URGENT!! What steps should i take against outrageous claims against my security deposit?

The experts for this are usually at Legal Services or Legal Aid. This is complex so you need to spend some time with a lawyer.

Hey Baseball Fans! What is your opinion of this proposed state ballot initiative?

"Whereas, MLB umpires are responsible for calling plays correctly and about 10% of their calls are erroneous, the state of California hereby requires that any play disputed by any mlb manager be subjected to review by the presiding umpires, in a manner consistent with the reviews of home runs".

I'm looking for connections/info about taking a trip to Japan for about a year.?

I'm 20 and a year out of High School. My first year of college was awful. I have little interest in school. Last November I started studying Japanese and I'm doing very well. I have a solid foundation. I can write and read all the kana and a couple hundred Kanji. I'm currently trying to tackle the grammar. It's an ongoing process; I'm learning and relearning words every day. I'm aiming to become completely fluent. The only way this will happen is if I can spend some time in Japan speaking and being completely emerged in the language. I'm looking for any connections, programs, ideas, or info that can aid me in accomplishing this feat. Thanks for your help in advance.

Secret Tea rooms, a fantastic new idea?

Hi, It sound OK but who is going to want you to put your feet up in their place and let you eat homemade cakes, jam and tea ? You had better pay good and tip good. Would this be all times of the day and could you drop in anytime you felt ? Might be a problem unless the rules were well defined.

Wwhy do so many people waste hundreds on diet pills abd fads?

Ok so i buy a pre workout supplement called acg3 helps with energy a lot i workout everyday and diet and i am losing weight fine about 5 pounds a week healthyly to i've never never understood why people waste so much money all you gotta do is eat right exercise jus don't understand why people don't actually think about what there buying cuz most of it doesn't help

Which short paragraph sounds better?

I prefer the first. What you've done to create the telegraphic style of these paragraphs is to leave out the subject of every sentence. In the second paragraph, by dropping "is" you also leave out a verb (and only this verb in the whole paragraph), which unbalances the paragraph structure.

Where can I buy these PC parts?

at your local pc store :) .... everything is good except the processor. i suggest you to buy intel processor instead ... you can check ebay.com if you want

Strategy for alien attack or contact?

i am sure theres a strategy for everything , natural disasters and intercontinental nuclear wars , but what if aliens , turned up , if they was non aggressive am sure all lines of communication would be used , but if they was combatants , , is there a UN , NATO OR OTHER GLOBAL INITIATIVE , AND WOULD WOULD LEAD THE ATTACK

Has your partner ever gone through a phase of wanting only one thing?

Don't worry. It will get routine for him after a while and then you'll need to show him something new.

Am I really being offensive?

I'm a girl, and I read those magazines. Obviously, I don't find them offensive in any way, they actually have a lot of good articles and funny stuff in them. If the woman found them so offensive, then she shouldn't be reading over your shoulder! Does the woman find the beach offensive too? Maybe you should pick up a book on how to deal with an overbearing, nosey, workplace psychopath!!

Where is my life going? (my gyspy life)?

Hello my name is Matthew im 14. i am from hawaii,but was born in san fransisco California i've been living in hawaii for 3 years. i wish to go to the mainland but can't because my dad did a crime, he is a body man and has no job, he works but its kinda like self employment except without all that taxes bullshi't. i am a gypsy, i travel a whole lot from place to place, i've lived in maybe 5 different sates, throughout 14 years of my life. people don't really know the way the gypsy culture they will likely miss under stand it, a gypsy is a person who travels alot! and dose not have a job and dose not have good credit score and dose not get "legally married" and a bunch of other stuff including paying there taxes. gypsy people don't believe in a good education because i mean seriously 8 years in school + collage? all gypsies don't believe in that some do some don't, me on the other hand im one of the lucky ones, i can read and write and spell hate math. i have missed up to 7 years of school because of my family due to traveling and my culture. the only thing a gypsy family really wants is a 1.money 2.house 3.fancy cars 4.live life to its fullest 5.have a very Very large family.in gypsy culture collage is getting married the way i think of it, a average gypsy boy is considered a man at 14-16 i am 14 i am suppose to get married in 2-3 more years i don't, most boys do. i have a very poor family,very big but poor.constantly asking family members for money and begging. i hate begging! so embarrassing. what im trying to tell you is that i don't really know if i wanna continue to live this life. if i continue to become a gypsy my job will be to buy and sell cars, its not that bad actually i would buy a car for low money and sell it for high i would make maybe 3-5K depending on the cars.but that's not what i want nore getting married at 16 nore moving from place to place nore destroying my credit nore living a criminal life. if i chose to become a "american" my mother and father will disown me, i don't want that, the gypsy culture insists on becoming strictly gypsy, all my family will disown me, but im sure they will love me. i've told them many times if i get a job i would make more money then both of them but no...i wish i could change my life it sucks! all i do is play games all day long no school nothing not even a social life.if i do get a job i have one in mind...i would like to be a infectious disease researcher and work with the CDC in atlanta i would make around $178,000 Annual. and i would "own my home' and my car a, new one plus i'd have money in the bank,but then there's collage see that's were my problems start, i have missed all my years of school and it would cost hundreds of thousands of dollars to get into a good collage since, i want to major in biology and medical no one would except me!, it would take me maybe 17 years to get my job go to collage and save up all the money to do that. i don't wanna waste 17 years of my life for that. and if i do get a job the most id ever make is maybe $35,000 Annual,i really don't no what to do? i mean some of my family members are rich from buying and selling car's and psychic readings. i don't know and even if your saying to your self were are the police,well if your saying where is child protective services they wouldn't find me because i move like crazy Plus gypsy are excellent liars,i mean i have a home i have food i have all of that i don't want the police to take me away from my family i have 3 brothers and 1 sister they don't go to school, i don't know what to do you tell me?

Why do people point and laugh when I skip daintily and without a care in the world down the street?

They are just being jealous (a) holes...right? I bet they can't stand seeing someone take the initiative to save money on costly gas.

Why do atheists never discuss the bible in detail?

You just make sweeping statements, usually scoffing at the scriptures, have you ever sat down and actually read something?

Which paragraph is better?

if this is about yourself, then i wouldn't recommend either of them. it would be much better to describe examples showing each quality as proof that you have these qualities. if this is a general description of someone else, then i like the second paragraph.

How can people deny evolution?

In my church youth group they were scoffing evolution, and saying how it couldn't make sense I was joining in half-heartedly but I realized I find it ridiculous for people to say it doesn't exist, my parents are the same, I am a faithful christian but I completely believe in evolution through the process of natural selection, they don't understand that evolution is god's tool for life. and it makes me realize why peopel think us christians are idiots.

Alright i tihnk im becoming anorexic!! please help i dont want to end up like this!?

You sound fine. Stop obsessing over your weight. When you're thin, there will always be fat people telling you that you're too thin but seriously, it's cause they're jealous. And your little sister sounds like a little brat.

Puppy questions can anyone help out thanks :)?

Jamlia. I am not sure about rottweilers these dogs as you have said are not the easy to train , The first thing i would do is get rid of all the flees that are still within this dog .I would be taking it to the vet to have the dog looked at. i do not know how much it is in the U.S.A .But here in Aussie Land it cost about $140. and that would include the flee injection . The best thing for you to do Jamila is when you pay a visit to the vets ask the vet the question that you are asking here . and by doing this it will help you better to under stand as to the questions you are asking . good luck with the dog I hope he/she gets better soon.

Would this kill your relationship with your family?

Sadly, it does seem to be over. How very sad for you. I would have made every effort to forgive, forget and be there for my child's big day. I wish you peace and please make the best of things. Hopefully the other side of your family is kind.

Is it too late to apply for Cambridge? (Serious help required!)?

What grades did you get at GCSE - all As? What are you predicted for your AS/A levels - all As? If all of this is true, then talk to your college about perhaps adding some more A levels in less "fluffy" subjects than film studies and media studies. But if your grades aren't at the level I've mentioned, then to be honest, do not bother. Instead, move on. Find a uni you like, and go there instead.

Looking for TV series that is like "As Time Goes Bye"?

Hi absolutely love the tv show "as time goes by", I have watched all the episodes over like a hundred times now, and I was wondering if their are any tv shows similar to it?

How important is it to have options on your menu?

there's nothing wrong with your menu and Im a very picky eater myself. They have a choice: You either eat it or you don't!

Dream Interpretation...?

You feel like you have no control of your life or a situation (someone else is driving) & it swerves out of control (crash). Not sure about the vampire part. Lol

How is this story so far?

Well, there's a lot of dialogue. I also feel as if it's a bit cliche... It needs a bit more background.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

How can I get rid of pasty/light/pale skin without the use of makeup or moisturiser? Read below to understand?

20 minutes per day on each side out in the sun w-i-t-h-o-u-t sun screen. Your skin will not be harmed by 20 minutes per day, but will begin to tan itself. This is a natural occurrence... sunscreen is NOT as beneficial as they want you to believe it is. It is NOT healthy to have all those chemicals in your bloodstream ( anything you put on your skin ends up in your bloodstream). The majority of people are deficient in vitamin D... and sunscreen is the reason why... that and sunglasses. Just get outside and lay on each side for about 20 minutes per day between the hours of 10 and 2 pm. If you work during those hours, you can go to a tanning booth. Get a one month unlimited plan. At first, just go in the booth for about 2 minutes. Do this amount of time for 3 days, then up your time by 1 minutes for 2 days. Then, up your time to 3 minutes and do that for 3 days. Keep doing this... slowly building up your time in the booth until you begin to notice results. Your last week in the booth you should be able to stay in there for about 15 - 20 minutes..... and you will be a nice shade of golden brown without burning or harming your skin.

Any advice for a girl that is jealous of her cousin?

Wow. Your family sounds ****** up. I think you should find friends how have no idea who Valentina is. You can have a fresh start. Also your only 4 years away from adulthood, you can start planning to get the hell out of there, I no I would.

Why did my (former) friend get upset when I said "that word" (The n-word)?

I don't blame white people for saying it anymore. Black people have put this on themselves by allowing it in our music, and every day life. I don't care anymore. Anyone that says it is an idiot to me. You're all just a bunch of childish fools. "Well he gets to say it, why can't I." What a bunch of idiots.

I will be spending six days in New York. There are hundreds of attractions, which ones to visit?

Every time I go online to check the attractions, they look like a million and all are interesting. There are only two tours that I confirmed are, “The Statue of Liberty” and “Broadway musical”. I want approximately eight more areas to visit.

What signs are ambitious and will do anything to get where they want?

Leo & scorpio whatever the decide, they get it done by hook or crook. In twins the difference of minutes of their birth matters alot, the whole natal chart 7 manings changes with the minute calculation of asc.

Does anyone deserve everlasting life?

No one deserves it. It is a gift of God to all who repent of their sins and receive Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior.

How do you feel about abortion potentially being illegalized?

So the women of Mississippi will have to go out of state to get an abortion. Way to make it tougher on women who need them. You do realize some one will challenge this and probably win. The whole idea of an amendment to the constitution defining when a person becomes a person is ludicrous. No one can agree on that, not scientist or religions.

I am getting EXTREMELY sacred and just keeping thinking about all the bad stuff..HELP! :'(?

basically i was watching this tv program and there was a case of molestation in it and i am very serious about that kind of stuff..too serious actually..but when i was watching it my mind just went like "not again" like in a scoffing way and a few days later my mom after all these years completely out of the blue told me that she was molested as a teenager..and then a few days later i was watching this movie and somebody dies in it and my brain went like "god, they dramatize it too much" and 2 days after that my grandad passed away..he was old and infact seriously ill for the last 4 years but you know now i am super sacred coz both the times i thought it was too trivial or too dramatized it came true and in the last 10 days now, i have watched this movie in which somebody was in coma and my brain thought "god this is too dramatized" and then in this tv program i was watching, i thought this person was okay even though they committed adultery..another thing that i am soooo againt..but my brain thought "MAYBE there were in love" but even though they might be IT IS WRONG and now i am sacred like terrified that whatever i think or scoff off or not take seriously or think is understandable might just come true and i am like dying just thinking about all this and i cant stop my brain from thinking and i have very strong beliefs but just coz i tought something what if it comes true..it is getting so bad that i a not able to sleep and feel suffocated all the time and my heart is always beating in that fast-scared sort of way and i am just so so so sooooo sacred..please HELP!

Do colleges look at retaking a class in high school?

So I didn't do so good in Pre Calc and Trigonometry, I got a 72 overall in it. I'm a sophomore, going to be a junior next school year. I would like to just move on and do better in Calculus, I can get help if I need it, or I could retake this class. Which should I do??? Do Colleges look at retaking a class? My guidance councilor says that they like that you are taking the initiative to retake it but I don't know. Any help?

Is this a good trade?MacBook pro for ipad2 and 500 hundred dollars?

My friend wants to trade me his iMac book pro 15 inch the best one (2009) for 500 dollars cash and the ipad2 64gb is this a good trade???

LOW CONFIDENCE? Can't talk to any of the people I like?

Yup, I've tried to trick me mind and all that but. Mm. There's a girl in me class right, and I am so damn shy and I admire her so damn much, (I'm a girl meself), and it makes me feel so (damn) pathetic, dunnit, cos she don't even go as far as look at me. Unusually, she doesn't scoff at me either which is good, but makes me feel worthless as well, cos I want to get her attention (no, I'm no homo), and she's so what would you call it...intimidating. And, I'm this soppy gentle creature, aggressive at times but when I am I don't speak sense, and wow I've never see her do one thing wrong, she's so perfect and firey arrogant (and this makes me sound like this is remotely sexual but it's not). Incisive and sometimes, in an admirable way, extremely opinionated and stands her ground whether I give in to the even irrational arguments because I get so melty by people who are mouthing off at me. I get surprised if she so much as sits three seats away from me, and whenever I go to sit somewhere it's always her my eyes are drawn to because she's so intense. I don't understand how anyone else can't stand gaping at her all the time, and no, I'm never usually the type that so obsessively admires someone that they don't think they deserve to talk to them (I don't think I deserve to converse in general, heh heh), but can you give me this long, rich Everybody's Equal and Different And Beautiful in Their Own Way Speech ,because they help to open my eyes a little wider. Yep, thanks. :)

How much do your siblings, especially older siblings, influence you?

I have 2 older brothers and two older sisters they don't affect me at all because I see them as my equal and some times I feel like I have more since them. I use to look up to my oldest sister but I noticed things about her and is not the type of person I want to look up to so i don't anymore.

Creepy guy at work what do I do?

I am from Bulgaria and moved to the states. I work in the bakery at a grocery store and at a seafood buffet at nights. Their is this guy about my same age and he constantly stare at me. I guess american women find him to be attractive. He is very muscular tan and clean cut but that is not what bulgarian women like. He tried to talk to me outside on my break and ask me what my name was and I showed him my nametag and he scoffed at me and walk away. He started a rumor that I was a stuck up ***** and now nobody at my job wants to talk to me. I dont know what to do because he is one of the main managers and everybody adore him where I work but he gives me dirty looks. I went in office to ask for my check and he walked out and said somebody else would give it to me and brought a older lady to come in and give me my check. What do I do?

Anyone know about the "FREE" government small business money?

Ok, Does anyone know about the "FREE" government small business money? You ask a hundred people a question, you get a hundred different answers. I was told, that you can get free money from the government for small business, that they give an amount of money away to help people start small business's ? Ive been unemployed over 4 years now after a lower back injury, I hated working and want to do my own thing. I'm into doing motorcycle detail and restorations, custom bike fabrications, and custom airbrush. I'm living at my moms now, she rents, so I would need at least a portable 2 stall garage, an air compressor, bike lift, pipe bender, and other odds and ends. I'm thinking $15,000 or $20,000 would get me up and running, then I could get my life back. If anyone knows if you "can" get free government small business money? please let me know. Thanks.

Why does this always happen to me when it comes to guys!?! WHY!?

that's just one guy....you cant complain and say why does this happen to every guy? like it's not supposed to. you act every guy who you think is cute is supposed to like you back. it doesnt happen that way. another guy will come around. the right one. obviously this guy isn't because he doesn't talk to you. find someone who will treat you like a princess - thats what you deserve

If you privateize the Post Office how long would it take before the CEO felt he was worth 500 times the pay of?

If the CEO produced more efficient running organization and quit nickle and diming us and making my current book of stamps outdated every 6 months it would be worth it.

In your mind, what event qualifies as a genuine unexplained mystery?

I am looking for objective answers here and not lunacy (I know I came to the wrong place). As a scientist; historically I have often scoffed at the myriad of UFO crackpots that populate non-primetime TV. However, I have taken a fresh look at some of these mysterious events in recent years, and will admit that some are difficult to explain away by deductive logic. JAL 1628 over Alaska, the Belgian UFO wave etc – what are some of your favourite mysteries.

Dream Interpretation...?

You feel like you have no control of your life or a situation (someone else is driving) & it swerves out of control (crash). Not sure about the vampire part. Lol

When me and my gf drive her car it feels like the speed is on a small coaster while giving it gas still..?

if its almost like a little skip/jump, it's probably the transmission slipping. you said its around 2-3000 rpm,and if it's the transmission, it will probably happen when it gets to around 3000.

I have applied for job via an online recruitment agency and they have come back to say I am a fitting match...?

and that they passed on my CV and details. Now that I know the name of the company offering the job should I apply again through their own website - would this show initiative and keenness, and maybe make me stand out from the other applicants or would it simply seem unprofessional.

Where is my life going? (my gyspy life)?

Hello my name is Matthew im 14. i am from hawaii,but was born in san fransisco California i've been living in hawaii for 3 years. i wish to go to the mainland but can't because my dad did a crime, he is a body man and has no job, he works but its kinda like self employment except without all that taxes bullshi't. i am a gypsy, i travel a whole lot from place to place, i've lived in maybe 5 different sates, throughout 14 years of my life. people don't really know the way the gypsy culture they will likely miss under stand it, a gypsy is a person who travels alot! and dose not have a job and dose not have good credit score and dose not get "legally married" and a bunch of other stuff including paying there taxes. gypsy people don't believe in a good education because i mean seriously 8 years in school + collage? all gypsies don't believe in that some do some don't, me on the other hand im one of the lucky ones, i can read and write and spell hate math. i have missed up to 7 years of school because of my family due to traveling and my culture. the only thing a gypsy family really wants is a 1.money 2.house 3.fancy cars 4.live life to its fullest 5.have a very Very large family.in gypsy culture collage is getting married the way i think of it, a average gypsy boy is considered a man at 14-16 i am 14 i am suppose to get married in 2-3 more years i don't, most boys do. i have a very poor family,very big but poor.constantly asking family members for money and begging. i hate begging! so embarrassing. what im trying to tell you is that i don't really know if i wanna continue to live this life. if i continue to become a gypsy my job will be to buy and sell cars, its not that bad actually i would buy a car for low money and sell it for high i would make maybe 3-5K depending on the cars.but that's not what i want nore getting married at 16 nore moving from place to place nore destroying my credit nore living a criminal life. if i chose to become a "american" my mother and father will disown me, i don't want that, the gypsy culture insists on becoming strictly gypsy, all my family will disown me, but im sure they will love me. i've told them many times if i get a job i would make more money then both of them but no...i wish i could change my life it sucks! all i do is play games all day long no school nothing not even a social life.if i do get a job i have one in mind...i would like to be a infectious disease researcher and work with the CDC in atlanta i would make around $178,000 Annual. and i would "own my home' and my car a, new one plus i'd have money in the bank,but then there's collage see that's were my problems start, i have missed all my years of school and it would cost hundreds of thousands of dollars to get into a good collage since, i want to major in biology and medical no one would except me!, it would take me maybe 17 years to get my job go to collage and save up all the money to do that. i don't wanna waste 17 years of my life for that. and if i do get a job the most id ever make is maybe $35,000 Annual,i really don't no what to do? i mean some of my family members are rich from buying and selling car's and psychic readings. i don't know and even if your saying to your self were are the police,well if your saying where is child protective services they wouldn't find me because i move like crazy Plus gypsy are excellent liars,i mean i have a home i have food i have all of that i don't want the police to take me away from my family i have 3 brothers and 1 sister they don't go to school, i don't know what to do you tell me?

O, Jesus Where can I go?

to get away from these scoffing, mocking, ignorant babies? I'm so weary of their constant whining. Oh yes I forgot for a minute they won't be there....uness they change.

Would you keep reading this?

I would read more but I have one very important tip: Don't have your characters tell us how they feel, show us how they feel. Don't say, "This greatly angered me." Show us that it angered her. Don't tell us something hurt her feelings or killed her, show us that it did. Having a character announce their feelings is weak and is a sign of bad writing, using the characters behavior to show us how they feel makes it more believable.

Why is belief in tarot, astrology, numerology, and psychics mostly a female phenomenon?

For some reason, most men don't care about or believe in things like crystal power, psychic energy, astrology, numerology, palm-reading, psychic powers, Reiki, Feng Shui, spiritual channeling, homeopathy, guardian angels, bioenergetic vibrations, spiritual interdimensional beings, and things of this nature. Far more women than men embrace such beliefs and study them on a serious level. Women buy books and attend lectures on those subjects and generally consider them serious matters, whereas most men scoff at them or roll their eyes or some other disrespectful thing. Why is that?

Friday, July 15, 2011

Question about FAFSA student loans?

alright well there's a college that i desperately want to transfer to. i just got my associate's degree and want to go for my bachelor's. however, my parents don't have the money to send me to the college of my chouce. so i heard about FAFSA and am not really sure how it works. so if anyone could explain how it works through the school and everything that would help. also, i'm worried that i won't even be able to recieve any money from FAFSA to begin with. my dad owns a business and makes good money but it barely keeps his business afloat. but on paper we look like we have money to blow and will probably be scoffed by student loan places and such. or so my parents said. at my old college they only offered to pay 200 dollars per year!!!! if i can't get a student loan then i'm basically screwed so any suggestions?

I need Song suggestions!?

I listen to everything, but recently i've been in the mood for songs with an epic feel. anything from instrumental soft violin music to harmonious heavy metal... i just want to be able to hear something that will give me goosebumps. no answer will be scoffed, i will try everything!

DO YOU THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS WRONG OR AM BEING SELFISH?

so my birthday was in early may I had made reservations to a restaurant being that my birthday is cinco de mayo the reservations were canceled mind you I had to take initiative for or my own birthday, long story short we ended up going to chipotle for my b-day and that was it on his b-day i spent over 200 dollars I didn't even get a card, he said he would take me to the mall and let me pick something out and he would buy it complete bs I've been with him for five years am I overreacting or do you think he's just a guy and doesnt pay much attention to detail as women do

Are mirrors accurate or not?

Sometimes the mirrors at school are made of foggy plastic, but what you see should be what other people see. You shouldn't worry about this, your friend was just trying to make a false point. I'm sure you looked great :]

Has anyone translated Feuerwehr Simulator 2010 into English yet?

I know Astragon hasn't yet released an English version for Feuerwehr Simulator, but has anyone taken the initiative to translate it themselves?

DO YOU THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS WRONG OR AM BEING SELFISH?

so my birthday was in early may I had made reservations to a restaurant being that my birthday is cinco de mayo the reservations were canceled mind you I had to take initiative for or my own birthday, long story short we ended up going to chipotle for my b-day and that was it on his b-day i spent over 200 dollars I didn't even get a card, he said he would take me to the mall and let me pick something out and he would buy it complete bs I've been with him for five years am I overreacting or do you think he's just a guy and doesnt pay much attention to detail as women do

~Fanfiction.net~ Is there a safe way to read fanfiction?

Wow. I'm reallly surprised to hear all of this. I've literally been going to fanfiction.net for 8 years and it never gave me any problems, but I've always had norton antivirus so maybe that's what helped. The only other website I know that has fan fiction is fictionpress.net but that's just free for all stories, not related to anime or manga. I don't know any other site like fanfiction.net with anime/manga fanfics though, sorry.

Which sentence is better in this paragraph?

An enthusiastic worker who accomplishes tasks with the mindset of never giving up and achieves full potential at the job in hand. Learns quickly and uses initiative to get tasks done efficiently. Communicates well with others, is a team player who can take the lead or follow as necessary. Is creative and has great problem-solving and organisational skills.

Want to be a good dad? Support Mom and Avoid Father's Rights Groups?

Marriage is a legal contract for the husband to support the financial needs of children even after a divorce. Many men think it is a legal contract to unlimited sex. These men are wrong. You are simply stating the obvious.

How do you tell your friend she's fat?

So my two friends (one of them is 4"10 and a hundred pounds and the other one is 4"8) they were not he see-saw and the one that was 4"10 was way up in the air and 4"8 was on the ground. She's also a whole lot younger than 4"10 (by like 6 months). So I guesstimated that she was 110 pounds and did her bmi which she was 24.3!! What do I say to her!!!!

DO YOU THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS WRONG OR AM BEING SELFISH?

so my birthday was in early may I had made reservations to a restaurant being that my birthday is cinco de mayo the reservations were canceled mind you I had to take initiative for or my own birthday, long story short we ended up going to chipotle for my b-day and that was it on his b-day i spent over 200 dollars I didn't even get a card, he said he would take me to the mall and let me pick something out and he would buy it complete bs I've been with him for five years am I overreacting or do you think he's just a guy and doesnt pay much attention to detail as women do

Should I be grateful?

Maybe you and your mom should go it alone. See how long he lasts then. Some bosses are despots with small dog syndrome....but most are decent people.

I need some serious help!!?

you can do anything you put your mind too love you for you .i would encourage exxersize early in the day walking playing out door games fun stuff i herd just eat meat and veggies works to no breads and pastas . dreams do come true if you try hard enough you have the will power there is a way stay strong and press on

We have rats. How do we get rid of the rats?

Ok, so here is the scenario... We have a chicken coop. And beside of this chicken coop is a really, really big field. Well, apparently rats lived in the field and they decided that our chicken coop was a much better home. So now there are DOZENS if not HUNDREDS of rats that swarm out at night and eat the chicken...stuff....We need the rats gone WITHOUT hurting the chickens. And with out leaving a bunch of carcasses laying all over the place for our dogs to eat...and get random diseases and die....Can anyone help us? It's really gross and I just do not do rats....I can deal with many rodents but NOT rats....

Why label ourselves as Individuals under a religion?

Then just call yourself a Theist and do away with organized religion, many people have chosen that instead.

Two Circuits Running Off of Same Battery Array?

place a 47 ohms in series with each between supply and load. Connect a 10uF across load. In this way you might be able to reduce their interactions. This is basic decoupling. Or you can feed one through a schottkey diode, and place a 10uF across it(between 12-0.6V supply and 12V negative.These capacitors should be very near the load, that is the circuit that takes the current.

Im one of Gods cruel sick jokes?

(If you read the whole thing say Squirrel in my Pants) Im feeling kinda low, i having a relapse of emotions i guess you could say. My bestest guy friend im hopelessly head over heels for, has a girlfriend and im happy for him i really am but it was kinda like stab in the shoulder. Then another guy friend asked me out and i said yes, but in 72 hours he denied it and went with my best friend. That was like gun shot to the face, i feel so stupid for even believing anyone could like me. I feel so pathetic, i occasionally lie to make my life seem better, i at times find things to cry about to feel sorry for myself, i at times want to do things just to get attention. But im black so cutting or nothing wont matter theyll just laugh and scoff at me even more. I think im racist against my own race. If i were white maybe id be prettier and people would WANT to love me. A better body and not a walking talking skeleton no matter how much i eat. I went to a mental institute a few years back, and people say im schitzophrenic, and phsycotic so that doesnt help any either. I feel inferior everywhere i turn someones better than me, someone that doesnt stutter or crooked teeth or big feet or a better instrument than me or grades and friends, i know its bad to look through windows but its hard when you see it everyday in the halls, laughing and holding hands with their boyfriends mocking you with their scholarships and future plans. My future plans keep changing and before i know it id be graduating. I just need to get these things straightend out, people keep putting me down, all the jobs i want cant pay the bills or people doubt me and i give up. Any goals i have i either for get or give up. Face it im a failure, im just a black ***** failure.

Am i being too sensitive about my fiance saying he is turned off by me?

So we were touring gyms today. He made the comment that I should go to the gym with him from now on. I told him that I hate gyms and the idea of sweaty people everywhere and people watching me work out is not my thing. He then said 'GOD, that is such a huge turn-off, if not the biggest." And scoffed at me like I was gross. Lately he has been getting on me about working out. I mean, I'm in decent shape as is. I only weigh 125, but I know he wants be to have a super-hot, trimmed body. So that comment offended me and kinda made me depressed. It makes me really self~conscience about myself, which is already added on to the fact that I already hate my physical appearance as is. And it makes me feel like he doesn't think I'm good enough for him yet and he is just settling for me and has to work with what he has. He thinks I read into the comment too much and I'm overreacting. Am I or is he genuinely a jerk?

If your spouse was unhappy with little things about you would you try and change for them?

Ok the bottom line is if i did something i i knew irritated my husband and he told me then i would try and change and take the criticism on board. I wouldnt throw a strop i'd try and get on with it. For example if he told me to lighten up a bit i'd try and be chirpier. But when i asked a Q on here to the effect that my husband basically bored the pants off me, was not at all passionate, never surprised me, did not have a funny bone in his body and was very quiet and serious, all i got was "why did you marry him", try and be spontaenous, dress up for him, tell him he's wonderful. Hello it was like he's the one who's losing his personality and im the one who has to dress up for him to make him passionate, im the one who has to compliment him in order to get a compliment back and im the one who has to be spontaenous for him to ignite a bit of passion. Whats the point in that, i mean thats still me doing it all and him acting like a puppy and taking my lead. Why cant he take the lead and initiative sometimes. It always him thats made to feel the victime, i get people saying the poor lad is putting a roof over your head. Again nothing to do with it, i work full time also, i cook all his meal, lunches, tea's, wash and iron but i dont see anyone noticing this. What do i have to do to actually make him have a bit of get up and go and a bit of life to him. I come home and in the same dull dreary voice i get "howya love" i feel like rolling my eyes to heaven and screaming, change the bloody record or say it with a bit of zest in your voice

My hair is always greesy and slipery,this is after i have been using hair.Should i be concerned about this ple?

i have been using some indian hair oil and when i stopped my hair was always greesy with the hair oil even cutting my hair like hundred times my hair is always especialy when washing it the water is greesy.its like the hair oil is part of the chemical composition of my hair even my hair itself is now soft and slippery.is this something i ought to be concerned about?. even my hair itself is now soft and slippery.is this something i ought to be concerned about?.

Why the lack of respect for NOLAN RYAN?

No we don't? He IS one of the all time greats. To be one of the top 15-20 pitchers ever is hardly a lack of respect. He just isn't in the top 5-10 where so many people want to put him.

One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters. - Means?

Father is the embodiment of character,morals,ideals and much more.It is said-- pita swarga,pita dharma,pita hi paraman tapaa,pitari parimapanney,priyante sarba Devata.

Shy guy respect me too much to make move.. What?

should I do? First i told him i liked him right away. He had the initiative to ask me my phone number. To make it clear im second in command in the department he is, but im not his direct boss, unless the boss isnt present. The guy is a regular employee.. so in such case he need to respond to me. Im a really outgoing person, not at all shy and really vivid and happy. Can say i give soul to the place.. He seems extremely shy when im around most of the time, when there are coworkers around us he gets a lot more outgoing and smile to me and others and talk normally. When we are alone we talk but he gets really serious, he always look into my eyes, always. I approached him and he told me he has some traces of autism.. that let me thinking a bit.... Ive been sending him text messages, which he wont reply regularly. He hates to talk by phone and we havent go out. Other day I asked him directly if we can go out or something.. he told me its been a really messy time.. he has problems with car, and family and job interviews.. name it.. He insisted that he liked me and that i was pretty, and he added.. "and i respect you a lot". I was like uhu! I told him he dont need to feel like im some kind of queen in a throne.. that we are all humans and equally important. He was chilled and such.. but still he acts the same... Dunno what to think... hes really shy, gawd! I havent send a text in 2 days... and nothing.. Probably at 3rd day he will send a short one to know how I am.. but thats it.... I just want some advise to try to understand.. if its me or if hes shy and hes autistic (if those are signs). I really like him and i wanna be sure, if i will insist or move on..... Help!!!

I cannot stand my younger sister?

Give her a taste of her own medicine. I have a litte 4 year old sister. She has two teenage (14, 15) sisters so she acts like a teenager. She really mean to me to. Telling me im not special, the she doesn't love me, tells on me allllll the time. I just walk away, or when your sisters says somthing mean do somthing twice as mean back. Taste of her own medicine. You could always go to our mom to. Tell her whats going on. e-mail your question to your mom or somthing.

How come those who think the universe required a creator...?

Scoff at the idea of "something coming from nothing" and call it ridiculous, but think it's perfectly possible and reasonable that an all powerful, magical god could just somehow always exist? How is the idea of a god always existing any less ridiculous than the universe coming from nothing?

Why do vegetarians scoff at the idea that nomadic people are unhealthy and that vegetarians are healthier?

To be honest vegetarians seem to feel like they're better than everyone else. That's probably why they all FEEL healthier. Very arrogant. Very annoying.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

What's happening with this guy?

He doesn't think he will have the chance to meet you anyway. He got busy, moved away, uninterested, a friend died. Who knows. A lot of people aren't into facebook, especially when you have to figure out possible language and culture differences.

Given that the true nature of reality is unknown and unprovable is it not arrogant to scoff at Christians?

The ultimate nature of reality is unknown, but unless we accept that reality is objective as a starting point, all reason, philosophy and life itself becomes meaningless and futile.

Is this a good trade?MacBook pro for ipad2 and 500 hundred dollars?

My friend wants to trade me his iMac book pro 15 inch the best one (2009) for 500 dollars cash and the ipad2 64gb is this a good trade???

What wHow to obtain my 1989 Panama Birth Abroad Certificate.... HELP PLEASE.....losing opould you like to ask?

I was born on September 26,1989 in Panama on a military base. They only gave my parents one birth certificate, and that was the hospitals. I went to get my driver's permit in August of 2007, a couple of month away from my 18th birthday.When I passed the test, the application asks where you were born. I wrote Panama.The clerk asked for my birth certificate, and than continued to inform us that it wasn't valid due to not saying 'Birth Abroad'. My parents have gone through every possible embassy, department, etc. and have even sent hundreds of dollars; however they all have no evidence of my existence. I am now 21 going on 22 and I still have no Drivers License or passport. I am burnt out and losing optimism. PLEASE HELP...Please

Phone help??????????????????????????…

hi i wanna buy a htc wildfire or a sony Ericsson x8 but i don't know how big they are the shops wont let me look at them an you cant take phones back if they are no good please help as i really need a phone i wanna know how big they are an they any good an please don't tell me to buy ones in the hundreds as i cant afford them

What equipment is needed for catering business?

I have just started the process of running my own home-based catering business. I'm only planning on small events such as baby/wedding showers, birthdays, etc. Nothing for hundreds of people just yet. Can anyone give me a list of recommended equipment I may need to get started? Do catering businesses still use chafing dishes?

Does anyone besides myself believe this time Obama is on the correct path?

The raghead in cheif was in North Carolina today peddling his snake oil green energy. Oh well, at least we know where one terrorist was.

What do you think of an Orlando Tea Party Republican angling for a commuter-rail project in his district?

Pure Progressive make work crap. The commuters themselves can pay for it and the private company needed to build and maintain it. This is not the governments business

Why don't guys respond to me properly? I'm told I have a great personality and looks so don't know whats wrong?

This isn't just one of those questions to seek attention. Seriously, I see them stare and we talk flirt smile etc etc etc. But when they don't make a move and I take the initiative (like casually ask them for a drink) they just don't reply. Or take ages to. Like I msged this guy 2 days ago and he still hasn't replied. Please help me to understand it is so bizarre! Mature answers would help.

GIRLLS!! Do I need to change my personality? Friends sister's opinion need help!!!?

Girls don't want a guy that is THAT into himself. They want someone thats going to be into them. It sounds like you are so full of yourself that you aren't connecting to those around you. Lighten up and quit taking yourself so seriously. As a woman I would rather date someone with an amazing personality over great looks any time. Your appearance will only get you so far.

Huge lot of legos for sale?

I have hundreds of Lego sets I have bought over many years. I just don't have room or time for my collection anymore. It takes up almost a whole room in my home. I was wondering what would be a good asking price? I have already checked eBay and there aren't any collection as big as mine for sell. Should I divide it up and sell it that way?

So i wrote this thing but it's not completely finished yet. Some feedback please? Much appreciated?

It's a very nice and succinct description, but it makes me wonder as to the point. Is it a biology essay? I think that we need to go backward a bit and simplify before our human inadequacies topple our technological achievements. We DON'T realize how wonderful, magical, and fleeting life can be; agreed. But it's an internal struggle to overcome our minds, not the world around us IMHO.

Do vets ever make you feel guilty even though you are giving your animal the best care you can?

this month i have paid hundreds for my cats and am giving them vet care from cheque to cheque. it just so happened that my new cat got pregnant as she ran away for a few days. i took her in for her respiratory problem, got that fixed, then her rabies shots and next am getting her spayed. i can hardly keep up with the vet bills and i feel they are pushing me to get additional examinations like blood work, chest xrays when i really dont see the need for them and it is extra money thrown in the mud for me... i feel like they are accusing me of not getting those done! no one is helping me out financially and i dont work that much at all. have you guys ever went through anything like this?

A girl Ditched me over 5 months and loves a new boy.?

Try to be practical and leave her. You are charming boy and you will get good girl than her, and now onwards you also try to ignore her. Telling you by an experience then only you will enjoy your life.

Why am i always hungry and never full?

It sounds like you need more fiber in your diet to full you up so you don't feel hungry. Try eating oatmeal or a high-fiber cereal for breakfast or eat whole grain toast or bagel with your veggie omlette, and drink lots of liquids (water is best) which expands the fiber in your system so you feel full. When I have a veggie omlette for breakfast, I don't feel full and get hungry soon afterward, but after a high-fiber grain breakfast I don't feel hungry even at lunchtime, and eating more high-fiber foods is healthier for you, you can read on-articles about the many health benefits of eating high-fiber foods.

Which SAT scores should I send to my colleges?

When you're about to send your scores, Collegeboard tells you that the school you've selected wants either all, some, or your most recent scores. It's not up to you to decide. You may only want to send your most recent scores, but your school might want them all.

Would you screw-over your "new" job for this offer? Please help!!?

dizzy a job in hand is better than 15 in mind stay where u are u have been there fr enough time to understand and manage ur work and the routine is fine with u dont change ur work believe me u will regret it working at home means u dont have a desk u wont know everything going around u besides being at home means ur an expendable asset while at the other job ur wanted asset which one to go for? Simply companyA besides among 15 employers u can be the manager or so in a higher rank more quicqly and ur work will be noticed and appreciated rather working in a company which has a 100 employee i hope u got the pic

How come those who think the universe required a creator...?

Scoff at the idea of "something coming from nothing" and call it ridiculous, but think it's perfectly possible and reasonable that an all powerful, magical god could just somehow always exist? How is the idea of a god always existing any less ridiculous than the universe coming from nothing?

What are the best bands/artists to only ever release one album?

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Parents constant bullying?

Basically, I’m really overweight, like loads. I hate my body and the way I look. My mum and her boyfriend are always on at me about my weight. They just insult me about it. I accept that they might suggest I go on a diet but they don’t, they make jokes up about my size. They are both very overweight as well but I try not to say anything back to them. I remember I once asked my mum what she liked about me and she said a few things and then said ‘you’re pretty’ and Lee scoffed and said ‘pretty ******* awful’ and my mum just laughed. And then my mum and Lee went into the things they hate about me. It was a very long list. I have started feeling guilty when I eat. I feel powerful and in control when I don’t eat and when I exercise. My dad has a girlfriend and he has pretty much left me behind and gone on to live his new life. He goes on holiday without me. Him and his girlfriend are normally okay to me. His girlfriend is jealous if he hugs me or anything but that is just her problems. My dad defends my mum and Lee as well so I can't go to him with my problems. I have wrote a question about my mum and Lee on here before. It hasn’t stopped. They are still as bad as they were then, if not much worse. Lee hurts me when he pushes and pulls me around. The other day I was in the bath and Lee knew but he still tried to come in. The door was locked luckily. He said it was because my music was too loud. Do you think it was alright for him to try to walk in? Do you think it’s okay that they bully me about my looks? Do you think I have a healthy relationship with food? What can I do to not feel so alone? I feel like I have no one. Thanks for answering. I’m fourteen as well btw.